Once stretched, the mind never goes back to its previous state.
And so does awareness.
Once you are aware of something, you keep seeing it, in you, in others, and in unrelated situations.
You start seeing your life in a different shade and suddenly everything looks different while driving home that new thing you are aware of.
This phenomenon is what I call “getting-your-head-out-of-the-sand” phase. You cannot deny it anymore, you cannot colour the truth. You have no other choice than to deal with it.
When life throws you under the bus, you have two options:
- Stay under the bus, lament all your life and use it as an excuse not to live the glorious life you could live,
- Get up (even it that means it hurts for a while), heal from it, and drive the bus so you can life your best life!
What do you choose?